Bridesmaids dresses: the 10 do’s and don’ts

Stunning bridesmaids in black

Stunning bridesmaids in black

Selecting bridesmaids dresses and accessorizing them can be one of the most exhausting aspects of planning a wedding. If your bridesmaids are all similar sizes, then the task can be a little easier; but if they are all different body shapes and sizes, it can be quite difficult. Remember that your bridesmaids are there to assist and attend to you on your big day, so be considerate to them.

So how do you choose dresses and accessories that will compliment each girl’s figure, without starting world war 3?

Here are the 10 do’s and don’ts of dressing your bridesmaids:

1. DO select your wedding dress first! YOU are the bride, and it is YOUR day, so your dress comes first.

2. DON’T select bridesmaids dresses that will clash with your wedding dress. The colour and style of the dresses should compliment, not clash, with your dress.

3. DO consult your bridesmaids! Ask them what sort of dress they would feel comfortable in. For example, are they comfortable wearing a sleeveless dress, or thin straps? Do they prefer a short dress or full length dress?

4. DON’T assume that they will just go along with whatever dress you pick out for them.

5. DO ask them to go shopping with you. You may go with just one of them on your first shopping trip, and then once you have narrowed down the selection, take them all so that they can try the dresses on. Of course if distance is a problem, for example, some of the bridesmaids are in different states or countries (it does happen!) then you may need to email photos of the dress or dresses for them to have a look at and give you their feedback.

6. DON’T choose dresses that may be unflattering on some of the girls. Other than you, your bridesmaids will be in the limelight, and no bridesmaid wants to wear a dress that looks dreadful on her. So be considerate when choosing the dress style.

7. DO choose fabrics that compliment your wedding dress fabrics. For example, if your wedding dress is in a flowy chiffon or goergette, then the bridesmaids dresses should be in a similar flowy fabric.  Choosing a contrasting fabric, such as a firm silk or satin, will create a clash in this case.

8. DON’T choose accessories that clash with the dresses. That is, the jewelry and shoes should all compliment each other.

9. DO choose flowers that will compliment their complete ensemble. For example, you may choose flowers that are the same colour tones as the dresses, such as purple dress – pink / purple / cream flowers; or a complimentary but contrasting colour, such as black dress – bold, colourful flowers like the stunning bridesmaids in black, shown above.

10. DON’T forget that your bridesmaids are usually your nearest and dearest friends and / or family members, and you don’t want to ruin any of those relationships in the process!

 What colour and style are your bridesmaids’ dresses? How did you accessorize them?

 

Latest wedding dress trends for 2012

Mermaid wedding gown

Mermaid wedding gown

If you’ve been wedding dress shopping, then no doubt you have realized that there are so many designs to choose from, that it can make your head spin!

Wedding dress designers are always coming up with new and exciting dress designs. Many designers release a new collection every year, but the variations between their designs are usually somewhat subtle. Although mainstream fashion changes every season, bridal fashion changes less frequently. In fact, the notable changes in bridal fashion are silhouette, fabrics and embellishments.

So what are the popular trends in bridal fashion for 2012? There are 8 key trends to look out for:

1. Mermaid gowns: This is where the gown is very fitted down to mid thigh, then flows outwards (as shown on the left). This style is flattering on most figure types, as it elongates the figure.

2. A-line gowns: An A-line gown has a fitted bodice down to the hips, with a slightly full skirt. This is very flattering on most figure types, especially the hourglass and pear shaped figure.

3. Slinky figure-hugging gowns: This type of gown is made from soft and flowy fabrics, which cling and accentuate the figure. Most suitable for the slimmest and tallest girls.

4. One-shoulder gowns: These gowns are fitted at the bodice and have a strap on one shoulder only, creating an asymmetrical look. The strap may be made of fabric or lace, or a combination.

5. Soft flowy romantic gowns: As many couples are opting for beach weddings, designers are offering soft, flowy gowns which are perfect for the beach.

6. Fabrics: Popular fabrics are soft silks, silk satins, chiffons and georgettes. These are quite often combined with subtle embellishments.

7. Lace: Like it or hate it, lace is very popular right now. All-over lace gowns are dramatic and very romantic. Many gowns have sections or inserts of lace, as a feature.

8. Embellishments: The most alluring embellishments use Swarovski crystals and beads. They sparkle and shimmer, and add beauty to wedding gowns.

What is your wedding dress style? Fitted or flowy? Lace or no lace?

 

 

Wedding Talk – the ultimate wedding forum is online now!

I greatly enjoy working with brides, and feel privileged to share general wedding advice.

I have recently teamed up with Wedding Talk, a wedding forum and community, which has just officially launched.

I know there are numerous other forums, but Wedding Talk is more than just a forum, it is a dynamic community. You can upload photos and videos, friend people, create private and public groups, and much more. Imagine sharing your wedding journey with your friends and loved ones.

What’s more, Wedding Talk are offering a major prize of 6 nights accommodation at a luxury resort in an exotic location: either Fiji, Thailand or Bali. Simply sign up for free and share your wedding knowledge for a chance to win. The winner could use this fantastic prize as accommodation for their honeymoon. Or if you are already married, how about an opportunity to celebrate your anniversary at a tropical location!

It’s so simple to join! Just go to www.weddingtalk.com.au and click on the “Join Us Now” button.

I am one of the moderators, so see you there! :)

The White Wedding Dress exhibition: a report

Designed by Hardie Amies for the Cotton Board

Cotton organdie wedding dress 1953

On Saturday 5th November, I had the opportunity to visit the Bendigo Art Gallery and see the exhibition of “The White Wedding Dress: 200 years of bridal fashion”. It was a breathtaking exhibition of bridal gowns, spanning the last 200 years.

Most of the gowns were displayed in glass cabinets, obviously to protect them. Going through the maze of rooms in which the exhibition was held, I was amazed to see just how much bridal fashion has indeed changed over the years.

In the 1800′s and upto the early 1900′s, wedding dresses were worn again and again after the wedding, often to special occasions as well as for attending church on Sundays. The wedding dress was of course seen as a special dress, but practicality meant that it needed to be worn again. This is in stark contrast to the wedding dress of today, which is seen as the most supreme gown a woman will ever wear, and is treasured in a special box or cover, unlikely to be worn again.

Wedding dresses worn by the upper class were often made of silk, and embellished with embroidery and hand beading. They had very corseted bodices which were cinched in at the waist, to quite unnatural proportions. Usually the gowns were hand sewn, and only the upper class could afford to have such gowns. For the middle and lower classes, wedding dresses were often made of cotton, and resembled sun dresses, more so than wedding dresses.

It was imperative that the bride’s face was covered during the wedding ceremony, thus the veil was a crucial part of a bride’s outfit. Veils for brides were almost always embellished with hand embroidered motifs or lace, and these were sometimes beaded. Interestingly, veils were always long, often trailing behind the bride.

Around the 1920′s, women’s fashion was radically changing, and along with this, so was bridal fashion. Gowns became less structured, as the corset was tossed away. Sheath gowns became popular as women wanted to demonstrate their new-found freedom from corsets.

In 1947, fashion designer Christian Dior reinvented the hour glass silhouette, which again changed bridal fashion. By the 1950′s bridal fashion was well and truly established as a trend of its own. Newspapers would report on society weddings in great detail, which was of tremendous interest to the people. Royal weddings were of world-wide interest, just as they are today.

In the 1960′s wedding dresses had fitted bodices, with a full skirt, just below the knee. There were few embellishments, perhaps just on the neckline or hemline. Veils became short and bouffant, often just below the shoulders.

As the decades passed, hemlines were raised, and then fell again. Sleeves became exaggerated, and then streamlined. Skirts became voluminous, and then slim again.

The wedding of Prince Charles and Lady Diana in 1981 set the course of bridal fashion for the rest of the decade. It wasn’t until the early 1990′s that bridal fashion began to change once again.

I particularly enjoyed the final room of the exhibition, which showcased Australian bridal fashion. The mannequins in this room were on stands, not in glass cabinets, so I was able to see the gown details a bit better. There were several gowns on display from notable Australian designers. Their gowns were equally as impressive as the French and English gowns.

Seeing the transition of the wedding dress from being just a dress, to being “the dress” that a woman will wear on her wedding day and be remembered in, was truly a journey through history.

 

 

Melbourne Bridal & Honeymoon Expo – 22 January, 2012

Melbourne Bridal ExpoOver 200 wedding suppliers will be on display to showcase everything you need for your special day.

This is the only bridal exhibition voted #1 by the brides of Melbourne.

Bridal Talks & Demonstrations, Magazine giveaways, Inspirational designer fashion parades, pamper bags to the first 500 brides and major prizes to be won! 

 

“The White Wedding Dress” 200 years of wedding fashion

Exhibition at www.bendigoartgallery.com.auThe Bendigo Art Gallery is offering a fabulous exhibition, showcasing 200 years of wedding fashion.

The White Wedding Dress presents the most romantic, glamorous and extravagant wedding dresses from the Victoria & Albert Museum’s superb collection.

This exhibition highlights the histories of the dresses, revealing fascinating details about the lives of the wearers and offering an insight into their circumstances and fashion choices.

Also on display in the exhibition will be gowns by celebrated designers, including Vera Wang, Norman Hartnell, Christian Dior, Zandra Rhodes, Lanvin and Lacroix. Also included are sumptuous wedding dresses worn by celebrities Dita Von Teese and Gwen Stefani.

Tickets can be purchased at the website: http://www.bendigoartgallery.com.au/

This exhibition will be on until 6th November, 2011.

Live on-air fitting with Jess!

On Tuesday night, 30 August 2011, Pat Giuliano joined Jess from Melbourne’s Night Alive at LightFM, to do her final wedding dress fitting.

Jess at LightFM

Jess at LightFM, after her final fitting. Absolutely perfect!

While live on air, Pat fitted Jess, checking that all details of her wedding dress were perfect. Jess tried on her perfectly matched veil for the first time, while Pat checked that it sat correctly in her hair.

Then Jess put on her head phones and continued the rest of her radio program while wearing her wedding dress and veil!!!

She looked absolutely delightful and was beaming with joy. With her wedding only 3 weeks away, Jess is very excited about her upcoming nuptials.

Jess and Pat at LightFM, during her fitting

Jess and Pat at LightFM, during her fitting

Bridal Fashion Trends for 2011

Pat Giuliano caught up with Jess on LightFM once again to chat about trends to look out for in wedding fashion…

Couture VS off-the-rack: So What’s the difference anyway?

Shopping for your wedding gown should be an enjoyable and fun experience. But for many girls, it can be quite daunting. There are a myriad of designers and retail bridal shops to choose from, not to mention an endless range of wedding gown designs. Couture, the made to measure option, has alluring advantages, and yet for some, off-the-rack has its appeal also. There are quite significant differences between the two, though, and knowing these differences will help you to make an informed decision.

PRODUCTION
The first major difference between couture and off-the-rack is obvious – couture is made to measure, while off-the-rack is mass-produced. Many girls prefer the off-the-rack option, basically because you can try it on, and if all is well, you can buy it and walk out the door, end of story. So it certainly can be quite simple, once you have found the gown you love. Having your gown made to measure, though, means it will be made individually for you. This involves a great deal more than the off-the-rack option. The process of having a couture gown made begins with a consultation, followed by a series of fittings, and finally picking up the finished gown.

FIT
The next important difference between couture and off-the-rack is fit. An off-the-rack dress will simply not fit you the way a made to measure gown will. Off-the-rack dresses are made to standard sizes, and while they may fit reasonably well if you are within the standard size range, they can only offer an “average” fit. The couture gown, however, will be made exclusively to fit your curves and shape, thus ensuring the best possible fit. In fact, fit is an art in itself, and skilled couturiers (that is, designers) pride themselves in their ability to mould and sculpt a gown to a girl’s body, like a glove.

DESIGN OPTIONS
Another major difference is the number of design options available to you. With off-the-rack dresses, your selection is limited to the designs available for sale. Usually if you want to alter a gown by adding lace, beading, or changing the neckline, a retail bridal shop may not offer these options. It’s normally a case of “what you see is what you get.” Thus finding the wedding gown of your dreams off-the-rack can be limiting. On the other hand, having your gown made to measure opens up a world of design options to you. Once the design is established, you have a wide selection of fabrics, colours, and trims to choose from, which are simply not available with the off-the-rack option.

QUALITY
The quality of couture gowns compared to their off-the-rack counterparts is also quite significant. Most off-the-rack dresses are produced with the cheapest and most economical fabrics, which are usually synthetics. By contrast, couture gowns are usually made from the finest quality fabrics available, such as silks, which are natural fibres. The difference between fabrics is usually evident in the look and quality of the finished gown.

WORKMANSHIP
The next difference between couture and off-the-rack, perhaps the most important difference of them all, is that of workmanship. Couturiers invest vast amounts of time perfecting their skills in crafting superb gowns. The hallmark of a couture gown is in the finish – a perfectly made gown should be so well finished that it could be worn inside out. The seams should be smooth, and skim over the body perfectly; the hem should be hand-finished and invisible on the outside; and beads should be sewn on, one by one, and with meticulous care. This work obviously takes a great deal of time, and many people are simply unaware of how much time it actually takes to complete a couture gown. On average, a couture wedding gown can take around 40 – 50 hours to produce, depending on the amount of beading and detail involved. Off-the-rack dresses are in a completely different boat here, as they are mass-produced, and thus the quickest and most economical methods of construction are employed. For example, gluing on beads, instead of sewing them on; machine-sewing hems, rather than hand-sewing; and leaving out some internal items, such as boning or canvas, which are integral parts of the couture gown. Off-the-rack dresses can be produced in around ten to fifteen hours.

PRICE
Of course, this leads to the last main difference being price. On average, an off-the-rack dress will cost around $2,500 (as a guide). By contrast, the couture gown can be around $4,000 to $6,000, or even more for some gowns. When you consider all the differences mentioned in workmanship alone, the higher price of the couture gown is more than justified.

Ultimately, the decision whether to buy your wedding gown off-the-rack, or have it made by a couturier, is one that only you can make. But the differences between the two are as night and day. Essentially, off-the-rack is ordinary; couture is extraordinary. Off-the-rack is standard; couture is superb. Off-the-rack is boring; couture is glamorous. The off-the-rack dress is a purchase; the couture gown is an experience.

Style, Sparkle and Shine: What brides are wearing now

For many years now, bridal fashion has been defined by the top bridal designers of the country, and indeed the world.

Today, brides have more options than ever, as the array of designs to choose from is never-ending. Many design elements have stood the test of time, and are still popular favourites.

Designers are favouring fabrics such as silk taffeta, silk dupion and silk satin. Other fabrics in the mix include organzas and chiffons, which add a softer, more romantic look to gowns.

Lace has a made a huge comeback in recent times, as many brides love the romance that lace brings to a gown. And of course, weddings are all about romance!

Design features on gowns include ruching and draping, which is in high demand, as it flatters just about any bride’s figure. The ever-popular strapless style is still in favour.

Sweetheart necklines are very popular, as well as asymmetrical necklines.

Combine these sensual fabrics and impressive design features with beautiful beadwork, and you have the elements of bridal fashion today. Hugely popular Swarovski crystals are a strong favourite for gown embellishment. These stunning crystals are often combined with diamontes and pearls, to create a strikingly beautiful effect.

Designers are now offering a wide palette of colours to choose from, aside from the traditional white and ivory. Colours such as magnolia, latte, gold, champagne, blush and oyster are becoming very popular, as more and more brides want to make a fashion statement on their wedding day. After all, you only get to be a bride once, so why not make a lasting impression?

Many brides are now choosing figure-hugging gowns, as an alternative to the traditional Cinderella-style gowns. Gowns are fitted down to the hips and then flow outwards, mermaid-style, or into a slight A-line. Bias cuts as well as flowy, chiffon gowns are finding favour with many brides who prefer a soft, romantic look for their gown.

The most long-lasting dress style which has stood the test of time is probably the Aline silhouette. This style features the fitted corset bodice, with an A-line skirt. This dress style flatters most figure types, and is thus a very popular choice for many brides.