Bridesmaids dresses: the 10 do’s and don’ts

Stunning bridesmaids in black

Stunning bridesmaids in black

Selecting bridesmaids dresses and accessorizing them can be one of the most exhausting aspects of planning a wedding. If your bridesmaids are all similar sizes, then the task can be a little easier; but if they are all different body shapes and sizes, it can be quite difficult. Remember that your bridesmaids are there to assist and attend to you on your big day, so be considerate to them.

So how do you choose dresses and accessories that will compliment each girl’s figure, without starting world war 3?

Here are the 10 do’s and don’ts of dressing your bridesmaids:

1. DO select your wedding dress first! YOU are the bride, and it is YOUR day, so your dress comes first.

2. DON’T select bridesmaids dresses that will clash with your wedding dress. The colour and style of the dresses should compliment, not clash, with your dress.

3. DO consult your bridesmaids! Ask them what sort of dress they would feel comfortable in. For example, are they comfortable wearing a sleeveless dress, or thin straps? Do they prefer a short dress or full length dress?

4. DON’T assume that they will just go along with whatever dress you pick out for them.

5. DO ask them to go shopping with you. You may go with just one of them on your first shopping trip, and then once you have narrowed down the selection, take them all so that they can try the dresses on. Of course if distance is a problem, for example, some of the bridesmaids are in different states or countries (it does happen!) then you may need to email photos of the dress or dresses for them to have a look at and give you their feedback.

6. DON’T choose dresses that may be unflattering on some of the girls. Other than you, your bridesmaids will be in the limelight, and no bridesmaid wants to wear a dress that looks dreadful on her. So be considerate when choosing the dress style.

7. DO choose fabrics that compliment your wedding dress fabrics. For example, if your wedding dress is in a flowy chiffon or goergette, then the bridesmaids dresses should be in a similar flowy fabric.  Choosing a contrasting fabric, such as a firm silk or satin, will create a clash in this case.

8. DON’T choose accessories that clash with the dresses. That is, the jewelry and shoes should all compliment each other.

9. DO choose flowers that will compliment their complete ensemble. For example, you may choose flowers that are the same colour tones as the dresses, such as purple dress – pink / purple / cream flowers; or a complimentary but contrasting colour, such as black dress – bold, colourful flowers like the stunning bridesmaids in black, shown above.

10. DON’T forget that your bridesmaids are usually your nearest and dearest friends and / or family members, and you don’t want to ruin any of those relationships in the process!

 What colour and style are your bridesmaids’ dresses? How did you accessorize them?

 

Latest wedding dress trends for 2012

Mermaid wedding gown

Mermaid wedding gown

If you’ve been wedding dress shopping, then no doubt you have realized that there are so many designs to choose from, that it can make your head spin!

Wedding dress designers are always coming up with new and exciting dress designs. Many designers release a new collection every year, but the variations between their designs are usually somewhat subtle. Although mainstream fashion changes every season, bridal fashion changes less frequently. In fact, the notable changes in bridal fashion are silhouette, fabrics and embellishments.

So what are the popular trends in bridal fashion for 2012? There are 8 key trends to look out for:

1. Mermaid gowns: This is where the gown is very fitted down to mid thigh, then flows outwards (as shown on the left). This style is flattering on most figure types, as it elongates the figure.

2. A-line gowns: An A-line gown has a fitted bodice down to the hips, with a slightly full skirt. This is very flattering on most figure types, especially the hourglass and pear shaped figure.

3. Slinky figure-hugging gowns: This type of gown is made from soft and flowy fabrics, which cling and accentuate the figure. Most suitable for the slimmest and tallest girls.

4. One-shoulder gowns: These gowns are fitted at the bodice and have a strap on one shoulder only, creating an asymmetrical look. The strap may be made of fabric or lace, or a combination.

5. Soft flowy romantic gowns: As many couples are opting for beach weddings, designers are offering soft, flowy gowns which are perfect for the beach.

6. Fabrics: Popular fabrics are soft silks, silk satins, chiffons and georgettes. These are quite often combined with subtle embellishments.

7. Lace: Like it or hate it, lace is very popular right now. All-over lace gowns are dramatic and very romantic. Many gowns have sections or inserts of lace, as a feature.

8. Embellishments: The most alluring embellishments use Swarovski crystals and beads. They sparkle and shimmer, and add beauty to wedding gowns.

What is your wedding dress style? Fitted or flowy? Lace or no lace?

 

 

Wedding Talk – the ultimate wedding forum is online now!

I greatly enjoy working with brides, and feel privileged to share general wedding advice.

I have recently teamed up with Wedding Talk, a wedding forum and community, which has just officially launched.

I know there are numerous other forums, but Wedding Talk is more than just a forum, it is a dynamic community. You can upload photos and videos, friend people, create private and public groups, and much more. Imagine sharing your wedding journey with your friends and loved ones.

What’s more, Wedding Talk are offering a major prize of 6 nights accommodation at a luxury resort in an exotic location: either Fiji, Thailand or Bali. Simply sign up for free and share your wedding knowledge for a chance to win. The winner could use this fantastic prize as accommodation for their honeymoon. Or if you are already married, how about an opportunity to celebrate your anniversary at a tropical location!

It’s so simple to join! Just go to www.weddingtalk.com.au and click on the “Join Us Now” button.

I am one of the moderators, so see you there! :)

Planning a wedding… 20 years ago!

Twenty years ago today, I walked down the aisle to marry my beloved. He was and still is, the love of my life. We have three beautiful children together, and many memories; some happy, some not so happy.

As I reflect on the preparations that we made for our wedding day over twenty years ago, many things have changed since then. We live in a very different world today. Back then, there was no Internet, there were no mobile phones and no text messages. To find wedding suppliers, you had to look up the yellow pages or flick through wedding magazines, make lots of phone calls to inquire about store opening hours or make an appointment, and then drive all over town to find just the thing that you were looking for.

Brides of today have everything they need to plan their wedding at their fingertips. All you need to do is Google any product or service that you need for your wedding, and waa-lah! You can find it with ease.

Here is a brief comparison of weddings back then, and now:

Twenty years ago, planning a wedding involved lots of phone calls and driving around to find suppliers. Today you can find loads of information on the Internet and save time driving around.

Twenty years ago, brides wore white on their wedding day. Any other colour was unheard of. Today brides wear the colour of their choice.

Twenty years ago, brides wore veils and ornate headpieces, and wedding gowns had sleeves. Today some brides wear veils and some don’t, headpieces are dainty or subtle, and most wedding gowns are sleeveless or strapless.

Twenty years ago, couples chose yellow gold for their rings. Today many choose white gold.

Twenty years ago, the bridal party consisted of several bridesmaids, a flower girl, several groomsmen, and a page boy. Today this hasn’t changed all that much, although many brides opt for one or two bridesmaids, keeping the bridal party quite small.

Twenty years ago, wedding photos were more like still life photography, where everyone posed and smiled for the camera. Today wedding photography is more like art, where photographers explore their creativity and offer bridal couples a world of creative options for their photos.

Twenty years ago, you could have your wedding recorded on video, with some editing. Today you can have your wedding recorded on DVD, with sound effects, detailed editing and super duper features, such as chapters and highlights of the day.

Twenty years ago, most weddings were quite formal with a church ceremony followed by reception. Today many couples are breaking away from this and opting for a less formal affair, such as a relaxed garden wedding or beach wedding.

Twenty years ago, weddings were very structured and ordered. Today there is still order, but with greater flexibility to be different and make your big day unique.

Twenty years ago, weddings were quite different to today!

What was your wedding day like? Did you have a formal church wedding and reception, or was it a less formal affair? If you’re in the planning stages, what sort of wedding have you planned? :)

 

The White Wedding Dress exhibition: a report

Designed by Hardie Amies for the Cotton Board

Cotton organdie wedding dress 1953

On Saturday 5th November, I had the opportunity to visit the Bendigo Art Gallery and see the exhibition of “The White Wedding Dress: 200 years of bridal fashion”. It was a breathtaking exhibition of bridal gowns, spanning the last 200 years.

Most of the gowns were displayed in glass cabinets, obviously to protect them. Going through the maze of rooms in which the exhibition was held, I was amazed to see just how much bridal fashion has indeed changed over the years.

In the 1800′s and upto the early 1900′s, wedding dresses were worn again and again after the wedding, often to special occasions as well as for attending church on Sundays. The wedding dress was of course seen as a special dress, but practicality meant that it needed to be worn again. This is in stark contrast to the wedding dress of today, which is seen as the most supreme gown a woman will ever wear, and is treasured in a special box or cover, unlikely to be worn again.

Wedding dresses worn by the upper class were often made of silk, and embellished with embroidery and hand beading. They had very corseted bodices which were cinched in at the waist, to quite unnatural proportions. Usually the gowns were hand sewn, and only the upper class could afford to have such gowns. For the middle and lower classes, wedding dresses were often made of cotton, and resembled sun dresses, more so than wedding dresses.

It was imperative that the bride’s face was covered during the wedding ceremony, thus the veil was a crucial part of a bride’s outfit. Veils for brides were almost always embellished with hand embroidered motifs or lace, and these were sometimes beaded. Interestingly, veils were always long, often trailing behind the bride.

Around the 1920′s, women’s fashion was radically changing, and along with this, so was bridal fashion. Gowns became less structured, as the corset was tossed away. Sheath gowns became popular as women wanted to demonstrate their new-found freedom from corsets.

In 1947, fashion designer Christian Dior reinvented the hour glass silhouette, which again changed bridal fashion. By the 1950′s bridal fashion was well and truly established as a trend of its own. Newspapers would report on society weddings in great detail, which was of tremendous interest to the people. Royal weddings were of world-wide interest, just as they are today.

In the 1960′s wedding dresses had fitted bodices, with a full skirt, just below the knee. There were few embellishments, perhaps just on the neckline or hemline. Veils became short and bouffant, often just below the shoulders.

As the decades passed, hemlines were raised, and then fell again. Sleeves became exaggerated, and then streamlined. Skirts became voluminous, and then slim again.

The wedding of Prince Charles and Lady Diana in 1981 set the course of bridal fashion for the rest of the decade. It wasn’t until the early 1990′s that bridal fashion began to change once again.

I particularly enjoyed the final room of the exhibition, which showcased Australian bridal fashion. The mannequins in this room were on stands, not in glass cabinets, so I was able to see the gown details a bit better. There were several gowns on display from notable Australian designers. Their gowns were equally as impressive as the French and English gowns.

Seeing the transition of the wedding dress from being just a dress, to being “the dress” that a woman will wear on her wedding day and be remembered in, was truly a journey through history.

 

 

Wedding shoes: which colours match best?

Bride holding her wedding shoes

Bride holding her wedding shoes

When shopping for wedding shoes, brides are often unsure of colour matching shoes to their dress. If your dress is white, then it’s a no-brainer – go for white shoes. But what if your dress is ivory, champagne, or another shimmering shade?

The best thing to do in this case is to take a fabric swatch of your dress with you when shoe shopping.

Place the swatch next to the shoes you like, and see if the colours work well together.

You don’t need to find an exact colour match. The idea is to find one that compliments your dress colour.

Surprisingly, white shoes often match well with ivory gowns. This is because the shoe paint is usually off white, not a stark white. If your gown is a more creamy shade of ivory or champagne, then ivory or cream coloured shoes may match well.

For other gown colours such as latte, oyster or blush pink, shoe colours such as silver or champagne may work well.

Another dilemma is whether to buy closed shoes, open toed shoes, or strappy sandals for your wedding day. This is largely a matter of personal taste. But as a general guide, remember that strappy sandals can be painful to wear after a few hours, and you will be wearing your wedding shoes for at least 8 hours or so.

Your shoes should be appropriate for the season, and this is usually the best guide. So if your nuptials will be in the summer months, then strappy sandals or open toed shoes would be quite suitable. For a winter wedding, closed shoes are the most suitable.

A great tip is to have a secondary pair of shoes (or slippers!) to wear for the reception. This will work if your wedding gown is full length and your toes are barely visible, so nobody will notice that you have changed shoes.

Wedding shoes can be dreamy, sparkly, romantic or elegant, but whatever you choose, make sure they fit well, and make you feel like a princess on your Big day.

Stylish wedding shoes by Nina Renee Designs

Stylish wedding shoes by Nina Renee Designs

 

Melbourne Bridal & Honeymoon Expo – 22 January, 2012

Melbourne Bridal ExpoOver 200 wedding suppliers will be on display to showcase everything you need for your special day.

This is the only bridal exhibition voted #1 by the brides of Melbourne.

Bridal Talks & Demonstrations, Magazine giveaways, Inspirational designer fashion parades, pamper bags to the first 500 brides and major prizes to be won! 

 

“The White Wedding Dress” 200 years of wedding fashion

Exhibition at www.bendigoartgallery.com.auThe Bendigo Art Gallery is offering a fabulous exhibition, showcasing 200 years of wedding fashion.

The White Wedding Dress presents the most romantic, glamorous and extravagant wedding dresses from the Victoria & Albert Museum’s superb collection.

This exhibition highlights the histories of the dresses, revealing fascinating details about the lives of the wearers and offering an insight into their circumstances and fashion choices.

Also on display in the exhibition will be gowns by celebrated designers, including Vera Wang, Norman Hartnell, Christian Dior, Zandra Rhodes, Lanvin and Lacroix. Also included are sumptuous wedding dresses worn by celebrities Dita Von Teese and Gwen Stefani.

Tickets can be purchased at the website: http://www.bendigoartgallery.com.au/

This exhibition will be on until 6th November, 2011.

Modern bridal hair accessories: what brides are wearing now

Brides are now choosing modern accessories for their hair, as tiaras have largely lost their favour among brides. The latest hair accessories are fascinators, which are becoming the trend with brides of today. Fascinators are a fabulous alternative to a traditional head piece.

Eloise Silk Rose Fascinator

Eloise Silk Rose Fascinator

Fascinators for brides may include elements such as feathers, flowers, crystals, pearls and beads, all attached onto a comb or hair clip for placement in the hair. A fascinator can be worn on the side of the head beside the veil, or at the top of the head just above the veil.

Amelia Silk Rose & Feather fascinator

Amelia Silk Rose & Feather fascinator

An alternative to a traditional veil is the “Bird Cage Veil”, which is a veil made of netting and worn across the eyes. This look is reminiscent of Hollywood glamour, and is very complimentary with fascinators.

Silk flowers are becoming sought after as hair accessories, as they create a soft romantic look.

 

 

 

 

Hand made silk flowers can be made of silk satins, silk organzas, and silk taffetas to name a few. These lovely flowers can add some romance to your hair style, and give you a soft feminine look.

These bridal hair accessories are available from Wedding Veils Australia: www.weddingveils.com.au See the Accessories page.

 

 

 

 

Bridal hair accessories by Stressaway Bridal Shop

Bridal hair accessories by Stressaway Bridal Shop

Wedding Veils Australia at the Melbourne Bridal & Honeymoon Expo

The Melbourne Bridal and Honeymoon Expo was held at Caulfield Racecourse on 24 July, and we were there showcasing our veil collection.

Pat spoke about veils during the Bridal Talks, explaining the differences between veils and the correct way to wear them. She also highlighted the fact that many brides leave their veil to the last minute, and then struggle to find something they like. Brides in this predicament can still order a veil in time for their big day, as she offers a rush order service.

Pat’s veils are highly sought after for their uniqueness and stunning beauty.

Many brides had the opportunity to try on some veils at the Expo, and enjoy the excitement that a veil brings to a bride.

Wedding Veils Australia specializes in exquisite, finely crafted veils. You can see the beautiful range of veils on offer at www.weddingveils.com.au

 

Pat and Kirsty at the Bridal Expo

Pat and Kirsty at the Bridal Expo

Pat demonstrating veils during her Bridal Talk

Pat demonstrating veils during her Bridal Talk